SDA Kids Dance at the 'Purity Ball'
As reported in the Associated Press and picked up by several newspapers across the country comes a story that combines dancing with abstinence education.
NASHVILLE, TENNESSEE - Jeiel Ballard and his girlfriend, both 16, are dressed up in their best attire, ready for a night of dancing and fun.
At this dance, however, there will be no close embraces or risqué moves to test chaperones on the dance floor. The "purity ball," sponsored by their Seventh-day Adventist Church, will feature a vow to abstain from sex until marriage and offer tips on "appropriate" touching between the sexes.
"It's tough, but when you have sex at an early age it can become addictive," Ballard said. "And when you get addicted ... it can lead you down the wrong path."
Expect to see more events like this now that abstinence-only sex education programs in the United States have lost their federal government support and churches and other religious groups step in to keep the message alive.
"With funding being cut from the government, you're going to see more responsibility placed on churches in the community to carry this banner," said Michael Polite, assistant pastor at Riverside Chapel Seventh-day Adventist Church in Nashville, which collaborated with several other local Adventist churches for the ball on a recent weekend.
"And I think when we do our job, it will show the government this type of education is still necessary," he said.
There is a proposal in the US Senate to restore about $50 million to abstinence education, but its passage is uncertain and it would restore funding to less than half of what it had been during the former George W. Bush administration.
One advantage of not using federal money is more freedom and creativity. At the purity ball, Polite uses ballroom dancing as the platform to teach teenagers how to interact without being tempted.
A dance instructor at the purity ball, for example, showed "how a woman should be touched, how a man should be touched" without being sexual, Polite said.
No bumping, grinding
"It doesn't have to be any of the dirty bumping and grinding," said James Brothers, an instructor at Dance World of Nashville. "It's just a great way to express yourself and really enjoy it, while still being classy at the same time."
Mathew Staver, founder of Liberty Counsel, which for the past five years has promoted a national Day of Purity for teenagers, said depending on private money could actually benefit the abstinence message.
"I think people are able to participate and understand the importance, and then you don't have the government purse strings attached where it's on today and off tomorrow," Staver said. "People ... will take ownership of it."
Gianna Snell organized a purity ball for teenagers at her church in Lexington, Kentucky. Snell said she and her husband are proof individuals can wait until marriage because they abstained from sex during their two-year courtship.
"At times, it was tough," Snell said with a chuckle. "I had someone who had the same goal, and we both made that commitment to each other once we started dating."Jason Burtt directs a nondenominational group called "Silver Ring Thing" based just outside Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, which uses comedy, drama, music videos and testimonies to promote abstinence in live events each year around the country.
"We try to relate to students on the level and the forms of communication they deal with every day, and just talk to them about the realities of sexual activity," said Burtt, who estimates the group reached about 60,000 students and parents in 2009.
Regardless of where the message comes from, critics of abstinence-only programs say there is no solid evidence they work.
President Barack Obama's budget approves $114 million for a new "teenage pregnancy prevention" initiative that will finance only programs with evidence of success. Supporters cite data to back their argument that abstinence-only programs can be beneficial.
Role of schools
According to the health department in Hamilton County, Tennessee, teen pregnancy in Chattanooga has decreased by 72 percent, and On Point executive director Lesley Scearce said her program, founded in 1991, has played a major role in that.
"Part of the danger in the cuts is that we're seeing incredible outcomes," said Scearce, whose program will lose $564,000 a year, or 40 percent of its budget. "This funding has allowed us to be a consistent educational presence, ... and we've been able to do it through the schools."
Valerie Huber, executive director of the National Abstinence Education Association, pointed to a study in Virginia that showed students who took part in abstinence programs were about half as likely to initiate sex as their peers.
She said more than 130 programs around the country that serve roughly 1.5 million youths, will be affected by the cut in federal funding.
"If we're truly concerned about providing a strategy to students, let's put the politics of the selective science aside, and be more concerned about what can be done to help young people," Huber said.
-- The Associated Press

Comments
Re: SDA Kids Dance at the 'Purity Ball'
Oh boy. You know that this is going to create a storm amongst the conservatives. "Dancing?? Sponsored by an SDA church?? Blasphemy!"
The main reasons for the 'ban' on church dancing are in regards to the sexual nature of it and the questionable venues where it occurs. It sounds like from what is being described in this article, these problems have been addressed by this specific church. Unfortunately, the motives and efficiacy of this project will be lost to the letter of the law when the criticism starts.
Like many of our standards, the principles of why our church has frowned upon dancing will be neglected for the letter of the law that there is dancing happening at all. Rather than raise this next generation on proper, biblically guided principles, many will resort to maintaining the traditional status quo of a rigid, 19th century dictum mostly because 'Sister White said so', and dismiss this Tennessee church's approach a priori due to this rigidity.
Darrell
Re: SDA Kids Dance at the 'Purity Ball'
Darell,
I think you are right. The positive aspects of this endeavor will drowned out by all the screaming.
Re: SDA Kids Dance at the 'Purity Ball'
Positive aspects? What positive aspects are there and how much do the alleged positive aspects outweigh the negative?
Truth Seeker
Re: SDA Kids Dance at the 'Purity Ball'
The positive aspects are that they are teaching them spiritual principles of their behaviour. Kids are going to explore and do things that some of us older ones would not approve of. But they ARE going to do them. If we can teach principles instead of prohibitions ... it will go over much better.
Re: SDA Kids Dance at the 'Purity Ball'
out of a part we gain our knowing and out of a part we prophesy
Dance, my Dear, dance,, dance. Let yourself be guided by a professional who will introduce you in decently and modestly moving your bodies in harmony with the music and in harmony with your partner. Have a pleasureful exercise (see our recent SS quarterly). Learn harmony,/W)holistic harmony.
Improve. We have two very popular ladies in our noncommercial statecontrolled TV channels. Both polite, wise, intelligent, very good informed - - - then they both were invited to participate in a dancing contest, one this year, one another year. ("Dancing Stars") This included a very thorough training in the classical dances for six or ten weeks.
So, point one. Point two : One result. Both improved in their communication in interviewing people or adressing those sitting in front of their flatscreens. They were more lively, not so stiff, still very decent and of good behaviour, but just a lot better in communication and metacommunication.
Dancing : That is moving your body (again see the SS quarterly) in a rhythm. That is essentiallyy human; knowing quite a lozt about brain functions I until now didi not find the (sotosay) "central rhythmic system". Anyway, is it a part of the Creation, or is the fun of responding to music with bodily movement the Devils and teh eagerness of little children to create their dancing to music an early deception and seduction of Satan (as some say) ?
Re: SDA Kids Dance at the 'Purity Ball'
Go to the source. Jesus danced and had a good time. How they frowned. Sadly people with one track cannot think of anything else. David danced with joy.
It is an art, an exercise and helps relieve stress and express joy.
I am looking forward to the dancing in heaven.